Today, I’m home in Baltimore, homeschooling my 3 younger kids (in theory). My husband is at work with our 14 year old who is off of high school this week. My oldest son, Drama Boy (17) is in Minnesota with Chris Ann and her family.
My thoughts have drifted to 15 years ago, when our two oldest sons were toddlers sharing a plastic table with a plate of cut up chicken nuggets and apples. Their vocabulary was limited, but somehow, even then, Chris Ann and I saw how easy they were with each other. They accepted each other.
Today, Chris Ann is being “stand in mama” and she is taking my oldest to his first college audition. He has spent the past 3 1/2 years at a well known arts high school, learning the craft of acting. It has not been easy. The school’s program prides itself on conservatory training, not making exceptions because the kids learning are just teenagers. They take a journey of discovering and owning who they are as people. It has been a challenge. Who knows who they are at 15?! There were challenges that arose along the way that made my husband and I wonder if Drama Boy would be able to survive. But, as I waved goodbye to him last week, when he was boarding the plane, on his own…I knew in my heart, he’d done it.
And, can I just tell you?! I am one blessed girl, that my bff is able to be by my kid’s side at his first audition! She has spent the week, spoiling him. They have shopped for a new audition outfit, shared sushi, played like they were suburban Brits while shopping in the posh grocery store…and shared meals with the whole family. Drama Boy and Chris Ann’s oldest, have done homework together, toured the college with Todd, went snowboarding, dancing…and spent moments catching up. Drama boy called me last night and said, “I have more friends here in Minnesota than in Baltimore.” That statement speaks of just how treasured their friendship is…how easy it is.
I’m so grateful today. I’m also, patiently waiting by the phone for the update that he nailed it!
Well, now I’m wiping tears from my face – how lovely. Maybe it’s because my own kids seem to be growing faster than I can keep up lately, or maybe it’s because I’ve watched sometimes close up and sometimes from afar at the way you & Chris Ann cherish & invest in each other’s lives. I’m always challenged & inspired because I think we can all be better friends. You guys make it look easy (even when I know it’s probably not). Amazing & so proud of your boy (& Chris Ann’s too)! xoxo
Mela, I just can’t help thinking if my family was in MN, we would all be besties! I’d love to get to know your family better. I have a feeling we have a lot in common. It does go by so fast, but even when times are busy, the investment in those lifelong friendships are worth every bit of sacrifice. Much love to you!
Kristin, this is such a precious post! I am right there with you! Blessings to you and your family.
Denise, thank you for your kind words. I know you understand.
This is so amazing! Good luck to him. Once again I’m so jealous of the friendship you girls have, I hope you know how rare and special it is.
Laura ~ Thanks for the comment ~ we are glad you are a part of our friendship journey too! We’re looking forward to seeing you soon! #IRL